Ask Chad - “No One Else Compares To You”
October 21, 2009 by Revolve Tour
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Hey Chad,
Could you tell me how I can “Ask You” a question. Cause I really want to ask you a question about something. Surprisingly, it is not a question about boys. Well I hope you read the this, it would help me a lot if you answered it.=]
-Nile
Hello, quick question, or if I may, more like a survey.
Why do men act strong when they are not?
When a guy professes to love you why do they then leave you?
Do guys remember the people they’ve dated?
Do guys actually care if they hurt someone, because from my view point not many do Please elaborate if you do care.
When a guy first says he loves you and is the first one to say so in the relationship, does he men it?
Why are men so ambiguous?
Why are some men willing to listen but not willing to talk?
Why is it that guys tend to tell others about their feelings but completely forget to tell you?
Why would a man not look into your eyes or “pretend to ignore” you? He watches you when you’re not looing and always asks about how you are, but does he really care?
How do you deal with a silent God? Why can’t he show us his whole design? We scream and weep for intervention that does not come. What do you do when not even God cares?
Hey, here’s a question you are probably sick and tired of. How do you know if a guy has a crush on you? Like, what is he feeling and how will he show it?
hey!
well here is my question i been needing some help on.
over the summer a guy he was forward and seem like he wanted to date me leading me on and everything. and dthen he lied to me for three weeks about dating someone eles. i would have been fine with it if he had told me but he didnt he snuck around. i have forgiven him and i talk to him every once in a while. i guess for me i dont want to date till i find that right guy and i think some one could find him witha friend situation. but my question is how do i know that he wont do the samething to me again. my mom said to stop talking to him he is no good but i never felt anything like it befoe maybe it is just me or it was just me being flattered but i dont want to go through that pain again. how can i avoid that?
Dear Chad,
This is off topic. How do you pronounce your last name????!???!??
Thanks
lol chad!Your right!One guy who says hes my boyfriend,said that exact same thing to!lol rofl
Anon trust me god does care and he loves u very much but somtines that prayer isnt to be answered right now so keep prayig about it i’m sure u will get an answer sooner or later! =))))))))=DDDDDD
how do you know if a guy realy likes you?? because there is this guy and he says he does but he has a girlfriend….please help
tori from sharpsburg ga
hi chad, i just wunded to say you are hotttttt!!!!!!
Chad, you’re hilarious! I can’t wait to hear you speak more at Revolve! Yeah, I agree, I think sometimes guys will just say that we don’t compare to anyone else to make us feel good, EVEN IF THEY DON’T MEAN IT! Girls, remember that God loves you and thinks you are unique and not like anyone else - you are so special and God loves YOU! Not just celebrities, not just the pops (popular kids) at school, YOU!
Later y’all,
Talia
Interesting question, Chad, and as usaul, nice response. I know the Revolve Tour is supposed to get new people, but I don’t think they can give you up!! I know God has the perfect guy out there for all of us!! Thats what I remind myself when I start asking all the “what ifs”. Btw, his vidoes are great. Haven’t read the books yet( Bff has it right now)
With Love
Abby
Anon:
We as followers do not “deal with a silent God”; we follow, serve, and love our God, who is invisible to our human eyes. God’s thoughts are “too lofty for us to attain”. (Psalm 139)We don’t deserve to know God’s full plans, or any of them. We don’t even deserve to be in God’s presence. Romans 3:23-”For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” But, because He sent His Holy Son to be a sacrifice for our sins, we are saved by grace and mercy. We have the wonderful privelege of worshipping the creator of the universe.
I have no idea what types of situations that you specifically are screaming and weeeping for, but I know that whenever I am crying out to God, I always remind myself that “All the days planned for me were written in your(God’s) book.” (Psalm 139:16)He has a plan for all of us. He has given us the chance to have free will as well. We can make our own decisions. I earnestly try to serve Him with each one I make, but I know that I mess up too…God is forgiving, loving, disciplinary, and HE IS ALL AROUND. God cares!!! Never feel that you are alone. Remember that faith is being “sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” (Hebrews 11:1)
Yea Chad! You are being a godly man by shooting straight w/ a kind heart & PROTECTING the hearts of women! I needed to understand the ’strong boundaries’ you talked about when I was young. I was strong in my faith, but gave immature Christians too much sympathy. My discernment was confused. We need to protect ourselves from people that may be trying to rob us of our beauty. Sincere people won’t run away or be offended if we protect ourselves w/ strong boundaries! A gem of a guy will won’t be trying to get what he shouldn’t have by tricking girls.
Mlke
Thank You!!! I have friends who will listen to guys they don’t even know very well, tell them things like this and they just melt. I try to tell them that God wants better for them and they shouldn’t even be talking to the guy, especially when it’s some random guy on myspace saying things like that to them. They don’t get it when I try telling them and it usually starts an argument. You explain it so well. Should I just have them watch this video or try saying what you said? I don’t want to be in their face about it, but it’s really important for them to know this.
Hey, Chad:
Thanks for being so honest w/these young girls. I am a mom of 5 children, 3 of which are girls and 2 of which are teens. Your words and Godly advice is hugh for me as well as my girls….especially my 14 year old. It’s rough trying to give them advice especially when you are the “mom”, but coming from you has a hugh impact. We are totally psyched about this years tour in Philadelphia. We’re sitting right up front and bringing unsaved friends. We cannot wait to see and hear what all of you guys have to say. God bless you and keep up the awesome work you are doing. What a blessing for you to help “save” lives.
susan fisher brown
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hey chad. i just wanted to ask you a question (i’m really hoping you read this). what do you do when you talk to a guy about the way you feel about something and at the time he seems to be listening intently, but then later it seems like it just went in one ear and out the other. it’s happened to me with one guy quite a bit and it really hurts. does he not care? or did he really forget after i told him it was important to me?
thanks,
Avery.
Hey Chad!
So I have a ?. I have liked this guy for a while and he knows that… and alot of my friends have told me that he like’s me too, but what do I say to him? We have alost every class togeather and I never know what to say to him.
Thanks Chad!
Lizzie Schoeberlein
hey chad i was wondering if a guys friends(like all of them) say that he likes you does he?
rachell,
I hav a ? for u. why is it when parents get devorsed the father stops caring for his kids?
Dear Chad,
Can a guy manipulate you in any good way and is there a way to have people like you and be a christian at the sane time?
Erica
I have been very depressed lately and my parents are split up I want to help but I just seem to be getting in the way and I am distracted all the time! I don’t know what to do! help me
torn
I have one question, I have been liking his guy but sometimes I think the only way that I can impress him is by the way I dress but then he shows such compassion for me what should I do?
Confussed
Hey! Could you tell me of how to ask you a question and how to receive them? Thanks!
I love you Chad! You’re one of my favorite speakers at revolve your <3 Thanks for what your doing! keep it up
~Pam
Hey chad.
i saw you at the revolve tour and you were a bigg help to some of my problems, but i have another one.
so there is this guy and i really like him and he seems to be interested in me too. the thing is though that ummm..i used to have a thing with his best friend but like no one else knew about and i was wondeing would that effect me and the other guys realationship if we had one?????
-elsie(:
I have got a real good common question, but first of all your amazing thanks for trying to help all of us girls out!
I am really good friends with this guy and i like him, and he stares at me all the time and says he really likes hanging out with me, but he doesn’t text me so DOES IT MEAN THAT JUST BECAUSE HE DOESNT TEXT ME HE DOESNT LIKE ME IN A BOYFRIEND KINDA WAY?
okay im not very good with these things but i think im missing something. When it says “you asked, Chad answered” i can never figure out where your answer is, i just see the questions and comments. Can you help me??
thanx so much.
<3 Rachel
Chad
Plezzzzzzzzzz help me out. There’s this guy and when i tried to talk to him sometimes he talks to me but other times he just ignores me. When he does this i feel invisable and like a nobody i finally got over it and said what ever and i no longer like him. But what, i don’t get is that he had just asked me a question that he obveously new the answer to. But it wasn’t in a mean way, it sounded like he really wanted to have a conversation now im all confoused cuz first he flat out ignores me and then other times we have this whole conversation i dont’t get it i just don’t get it. PLEZZZ answer!
Hey chad! I loved hearing you speak and reading your books, they’ve helped alot. There is this one guy at my church that seems to really like me. He has asked me several times (I can’t date untill im 16) but I allways say I can’t. Then he turns around the same night and flirts with some kinda new christians that are used to having a new bf every day. Hes a great guy but he seems like he wants to be considered a player. I know I should probably ignore him but Im just confused.