Ask Chad: Why don’t guys talk about their feelings?

March 12, 2009 by Revolve Tour  
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Why don’t guys talk about their feelings?

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18 Responses to “Ask Chad: Why don’t guys talk about their feelings?”
  1. Abbie says:

    HEy Chad i know that this is kinda off subject a little but there are these guys at my school that dont believe in god what so ever but i want them to know how important he is. I mean i love them a lot and always will even if they never ever believe in him but is there anything i can do to try and make them believe in him. IF you don’t think that there is anything that i can do then i understand, but i pray that there is. >

  2. Gracie O says:

    great answer! i ddnt even ask the question & it helped! thanks chad!

  3. Lauren says:

    love the answer and my mom said, “Amen Chad!” lol what that means i have no idea

  4. hey chad

    i am still reading your book, i got to the part about friends. well i got a friend problem. he told me that are friendship is over. and i don`t know what to do?

  5. amy lark says:

    amazing!!!! awesome!!!!!!!! it all makes sense now!!!!!!! by the way, bout what you say at the end of the video, about telling all the guys in the world, and trying to encourage them to talk more by next week… that would be amazing!!! so thanks for spending your time to help us with these questions we have about guys!! God bless you!!! have a nice day!! your HUGE FAN, amy lark :-D p.s. the “what would you do if you were a girl 4 an hour” video was very interesting!! God bless you!!!

  6. maybe half the guys will share there feelings to a girl.

  7. amy lark says:

    i said this somewhere else but it is a random thing to think about: guys like girls who like themselves… well, the right guy any way… so if a guy doesn’t like you for who u r… he isn’t right for you…so don’t waste your time on him!!!!! God bless and have a great day!!! :-D chad eastham’s HUGE FAN, amy lark
    P.s. :-D, Jesus <3 you!!

  8. Webkatalog says:

    Thank you for your help!

  9. ashley says:

    I really like Chad Eastham. I can’t watch his videos because I have dial-up. But I really like his books and he is totally awesome. I read “The Truth About Guys” and I am almost done with “Guys Like Girls Who…”. I can’t wait to see him at the next Revolve Tour!

  10. JesusFreak1994 says:

    Hey,
    thanks for the answer Chad!! One of my good friends lost his mom to cancer and he didn’t really show his emotions , and i really struggled with why he would talk to me much at that piont in time, but now, I TOTALLY get it.
    Jesus Freak,
    smile cuz Jesus loves you UNconditionaly!!

  11. Camille says:

    I sort of already knew about this, but when I try to tell other people they don’t really believe me.

  12. Meghan Zaky says:

    Hay Chad,

    Okay, you said that guys like girls who are comfortable in their own skin right? Okay, then why is this guy that i have liked for like three years still telling me that I look great but he could never date me? I think that all guys are crazy. But maybe its me what am I doing wrong? I changed myself to fit his standerds and he still does not want to go out with me. And you said we were confusing. Please help me? Because I need to know if I should move on or keep trying with the grate guy that I allready have in frount of me.

    Please help. thanks for reading this hope africa is going great.

    </3 Meghan

  13. amy lark says:

    hey chad!! waz up?
    is it wrong if you want a guy to notice you? and i mean, 4 a guy to know you exist!! because i have a crush on this guy who doesn’t even know my name!!! and to makes matters worse, i am a sevie and he is a Jr. is it wrong for me to like him?

  14. amy lark says:

    p.s. and to make matters even worser, he has a girlfriend! wow i am pathetic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sorry to bug you. God bless

  15. Abby says:

    What is your view on little kisses and bits of affection like that before marriage? I’ve heard the reaction of “Oh my gosh! it’s a sin!” and I’ve heard that it’s not and I’ve heard all kinds of stuff and I wanted another opinion.

  16. Caley says:

    Hey thanks this helps a lot! I’ve been wondering why this one guy that I like who likes me back never says how he feels, while I do. And like I’ve texted him before and he would say he was thinking about me, like trying to find a solution to something because sometimes I get angry at him because of the way he acts. So ya thanks!!!

  17. That was an extremely eloquent and a expressively marked with persision a definition Chad of the differences between a man and a women in the communication processes…very thoughtful and smartly addressed. The most profound thing you shared, as well laid open for sheltered individuals to hear is “The Never say Never” phrase needs to definately be understood and well! All men are different~and some rather speak quite fluently and well. With a vast and stern amounts of wisdom some….depending on WHO you are communicating with…in all due respect!!! Big difference!!! …..but Chad, this was very well put. And…..you are a talker….time yourself again!!!! :) Rahab

  18. Hannah says:

    hey chad,
    one more question that guy friend of mine who likes me well his grandma and him are super close and she is dieing his family just found out that her lungs are at a 15% capasity and she is in heart failure. I want to support him but i dont know how involved to get kuz he’s my best friend but he likes me alote and i dont want him getting the wrong impression about how i feel about him. should i do all i can or just try to help from a distance ?. also I ask him how he is doing with everything and he just says he is a guy so it dosent matter but i can see he is realy hurting. PLEASE HELP i dont know how to get him to open up without sending the wrong signals.

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